What Questions Do You Have About the Law of Attraction?

Is there anything you don’t understand about
Law of Attraction?

I would love to hear from you. What is on your mind regarding the Law of Attraction. What ideas do you have? What wins do you have? What successes have you had with LOA? What struggles have you had with applying the Law of Attraction.

Don’t complicate things, it’s really easier than you think. Read my entry about playing a game with the Universe. This is really fun to do. Actually, it can be a little frustrating, but in that frustration you will learn much.

Tell me your experience with using the Law of Attraction.

I’d love to get your input. If you have tried applying the Law of Attraction and did not see results, comment below and tell me what occurred. I can give you a tip and see if you can get back on track to using the Law of Attraction to live the life you desire.

I have written an e-book, Think–Feel–Live. It gives an easy explanation of how to start using Law of Attraction. Included in it are many processes that you can use to make sure that you are using positive thoughts and feeling good vibrations. That is the key to manifesting your desires. In the e-book I give examples of how I manifested things in my life using the Law of Attraction.

Please add your comments, I look forward to communicating with you about the Law of Attraction.

Imagine, Believe & Enjoy,

Sara McGoodwin July 25, 2011

My challenge is goal setting and figuring out what it is that I really want. My life is really good but I know it could be better if I could just get myself to focus more. I go along, rather amiably, rarely get upset about anything and tend to enjoy my calm, easy lifestyle.

I’d like to create more excitement in my life and more peak experiences. I feel like I have achieved the ability to stay positive much of the time and now I want MORE!!

I’m also always working on trying to be less judgmental about others and to appreciate and love people for who they are without wanting/wishing them to change. I’m really good at this with strangers, (the person who cuts me off in traffic, the person who takes “my” parking spot etc). No problem for me there.

It’s the people nearest and dearest to me that I have a hard time not judging. Of course, they are the one’s that I want to have the best thoughts about!

Looking forward to hearing your thoughts about this, Linda!

In Joy,
Sara
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- Linda July 25, 2011
  
  Regarding your first desire to create more excitement. I’m kind of assuming that you are already keeping an Appreciation Journal. If you are not, then that is a very basic that everyone should do. Having know about LOA for some time now, it’s only recently that I have started keeping a journal, both Appreciation Journal and Success Journal. I can’t imagine not doing them now.
  
  What I have also added and I highly recommend doing is to write your appreciations throughout the day on one side of a page in your appreciation journal and then on the other side of that page write future appreciations. As if they have already occurred. Create this whole new life experience that you want as if you have already experienced it. Have fun making up exciting adventures.
  
  You will be AMAZED at how the stuff you have written will start appearing in your life. I have been having all sorts of things come from this. A quick one I’ll write about here has to do with my driveway. It was really breaking apart, big holes, cracks and dips. I had been writing about how great it looks, how smooth and even it is, how easy it is to remove the snow, etc. All of this as if it already existed and I was appreciating all of these qualities. Well, out of the blue on Friday a few weeks ago, we get a knock on the door. It was a guy who had a truck full of left over asphalt from another job and asked if we would like to do our driveway for $2 a square foot. We now have a beautiful, smooth, even driveway that is a pleasure to drive and walk on. I had quotes for this work from when we first moved in and it was too expensive, we kept putting it off because we didn’t have the cash for it. It seemed like something out of reach, but I decided to do future appreciations on it having no clue how it would come or how I would afford it. And then it just happened and now exists.
  
  For your second comment, you could keep a Positive Aspects Journal. In that journal have a page for each person that you feel you are judgmental towards. Write about their positive traits. I did this with someone close to me. I didn’t use the journal, I simply chose to only see their good qualities. it was as simple as that. When I thought of that person I would imagine all of the qualities that I really enjoyed. Wouldn’t you know it, after that I only ever get the good qualities. I don’t ever see any of the things that used to be my expectation. The more good qualities I notice the more I get. Law of Attraction at it’s best, like attracting like. Pretty cool, try it, I think you will like the results.
  
  Enjoy the Journey,
  Linda
  
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  - Estra October 19, 2011
    
    Great post. I like the idea of a success journal as well as appreciation, and also being in appreciation of what you don’t yet have. Funny, I have a very similar driveway story! Just had good thoughts about it and one day a guy showed up because he had gotten a cancellation in my neighborhood and need to use his materials and put his crew to work! We got it done for a third of the usual cost. Great site, Linda!
    
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    - Linda October 19, 2011
      
      Thanks Estra, you’ve just gotta love the Universal Manager. Once we put our thoughts out there, he just picks them up and delivers. Pretty Cool.
      
      I visited your site, it’s really nice. Feel free to leave a link to it here on any of my posts!
      
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Seraphina Hart September 27, 2011

So thankful to find you. I guess my question is that my husband and have been married 36 years and we are the exact opposite. I am in the process of creating a vision board to set goals and I realize our desires are so different that it is hard to even create a board.

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- Linda September 27, 2011
  
  Hi Seraphina, Make your vision board full of all that you want, place photos also of you and your Husband. The Universe is so accommodating that you will be surprised how what you want will come in a way that somehow includes your Husband. One thing to remember is that the happier you are and the better you feel about yourself, the more you have to give to your relationship. You might even use your imagination as to how your husband might be included in some of those desires and also he might just be very happy for you as you achieve those things that he is not that interested in for himself, and in that way he is included. I hope that helps, feel free to ask me more and more questions if you like. If you have not already added your email address to the website do that and you will be able to email me directly from any of the email Law of Attraction tips that I send out. Enjoy! Linda
  
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  - Seraphina Hart November 30, 2011
    
    It is true what you said. I was not understanding our lives could connect. I had just spent years as a caregiver and not making any time for myself. I was suffering from severe burnout and seeing my world from a very small place. The way you get when you’ve been cooped up.I had to grow from that place.
    Thank you
    
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anni j October 30, 2011

Hello
I have been using LOA for a wile have got dirent things to shoo up but I have not soulust the mony problem yet whits I am working on.
I do belive it so but I ofent forget it in the dayli things I have too do.
How can I woud Like to have a lot of more mony so I can take som kursus in this thing to help me to be on the rigth way to remember it in the dayli time
I hope you understand me english it is not correkt.
Venlig hilsen
Anni

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- Linda October 30, 2011
  
  Hi Anni,
  I will send you an email with some suggestions. One very good thing to do is the Prosperity Game. I’ll give you a description of that and how to get started.
  Enjoy,
  Linda
  
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rehab February 12, 2012

hi linda , thx for all advises u really helping us and i want to attract to be calm and not nervous for small things , i can be easily get mad and after few seconds i become calm and talk normally to people around but of course that’s not acceptable , i want to know how to attract to be calm and to adjust my manners , i usually do this with close people and for small things and after i get calm i feel the situation doesn’t need all this madness and i do care about them so much , so how can i attract to control myself more .thx

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- Linda February 16, 2012
  
  Hi Rehab, I’m sending you an email to help you with this. The first part was just acknowledging that you DO want to change this behavior. That’s great!
  
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Baibuke February 16, 2012

Hi Linda
thank you for your guide to reply to my email. I am most interest and try to understand the Law of Attraction. I try my best to learn and hope to see the result later.
I work with your games carefully and to understand them well. I wish and hope the future

I appreciate your coaching

Baibuke Teikake Tauro

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- Linda February 16, 2012
  
  Hi Baibuke, You’re welcome. If you have any questions about the suggestions I sent you, just email me and I will help you to understand them better.
  
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Lydia February 27, 2012

What are your 5 top ways to:
Increase positive vibrations about relationships.
Change negative thoughts about relationships.
Manifest behaviours you want to see sooner.

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- Linda February 27, 2012
  
  Hi Lydia, I am sending you an email reply to your questions. I invite you to schedule a free session with me. We can go over so much more over the phone.
  
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Lisa April 15, 2012

Hi, I use the Law of Attraction through writing in notebook and it works (as I’m sure you know). Sometimes I feel like I’m getting what I want, but I’m standing in my own way of really achieving it. For example, I’m a non-published writer of young adult novels. More than anything in the world I want to publish novels, have an agent, etc. I love nothing more than writing, coming up with characters and plots. We are foster parents, own and work at a small cleaning company, and are all around busy with two little kids. For some reason writing is the LAST thing I do, and usually, I don’t do every day. Even though I have a cute little writing room, all the books I could need, a little laptop, etc. I just don’t allow myself to do it. My husband is more than happy to have me sneak away and write for a while, but I don’t. I recently connected with a new writing buddy, and we’re giving each other feedback and cheering each other on. I have always wanted a writing friend and wrote it in my notebook . I feel like the Universe is lining up to give me what I want, but I sabotage myself. Any suggestions? Thanks:)

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- Linda April 15, 2012
  
  Hi Lisa, Sounds like you are a powerful creator, now you just need to stay focused, I’m sending you an email with more detail. Thanks for posting your comment!
  
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Baibuke April 17, 2012

Hi Linda

The Law of Attraction Subject is new to me and not yet understand what really is. Is takes time or a while to work or react? or there are some subjects that can work with the that Law?. It is confused me sometimes if the LOA have been working but I do not noticed it.

Thank you

Baibuke

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justine renson April 21, 2012

Hi Linda,
i’m actually writing a college paper on What Causes True Love? and covering 2 theories, one of which is that we can call in our soul mate (true love) using the Law of Attraction. I am hopefully applying this and calling in my soulmate as i write this. for the paper, i have been looking for scientific research proving that the Law of Attraction is efficacious in areas of love. i have found a few tidbits but none on love per se. Any suggestions? I’m also happy to hear your pearls of wisdom on “Calling in The One” and attracting my True Love. I know a big part of it is being the One myself and approaching the world with love. thank you, Linda.

justine

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- Linda April 22, 2012
  
  Hi Justine, You can absolutely call in your true love using Law of Attraction. The Law of Attraction is always at work, you can’t turn it off. What you need to do is to deliberately choose your thoughts add real feelings to those thoughts and then trust and allow what you want to come, and it will. You’re right approaching the world with love and being in that vibration of love in everything you do will bring you all of your desires.
  
  The thing you have to do is to find the feeling of what you want to create. So, if it is a Soul Mate, create in your mind with your thoughts, what it is that you want. You need to find the feeling place of it. What would it feel like to have your Soul Mate? And then create movies in your mind and live them in your mind and see how it feels. Only create movies of how you want it to be, because in your imagination you are the script writer, everything happens exactly as you create it. The biggest part of this is…. in your real life only notice things that are a match to what you want, even the slightest little indications of it. DON’T look at the lack of what you want to create, because you will get the LACK. You get what you think about, so imagine what you want and get into the feeling of that. And be very general, don’t attach the dream to a specific person, dream of the feeling of it, the right person will come, whether it is the specific one you think you desire or someone else.
  
  Hope this helps, I’ll see if I can find some direct research for you, but with LOA it’s all basically the same process no matter what the topic of your desire is.
  
  Imagine, Believe & Enjoy,
  Linda
  
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Julie May 24, 2012

Hi Linda: I teach the Law of Attraction in Chile, South America, to complement energy healing sessions. I am a canadian. I use a unique “gift” which allows me to see and modify the negative energy patterns (limiting beliefs, self sabotages, fears, past events) that are in people´s energy field. These patterns contain the info of what they are attracting into their lives and by modifying them their lives quickly begin to improve (health, realtionships, wellbeing, work related issues, money). It`s like seing the science behind the Law of Attraction, seeing the vibrations that are bringing things into yyour life, changing them and witnessing the cause/effect of the change in their manifestations. Of coarse this has to go along with teaching them the rules of the game o¡to the Law of Attraction so that they can understand that they are creating it all and how to create in the desired direction.

My question is: Have you seen cases of external energies that can over ride or interfere in your power to create in the direction that you choose, that is, other people`s energy influencing your outcome through their bad intentions?

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- Linda May 25, 2012
  
  I have not seen that nor do I believe that anyone else can create on your behalf. The only way the others negative energy or bad intentions can influence your creations is if you let them. If you are a deliberate creator that wouldn’t be possible. But, if you don’t know about the power of your own thoughts you may be influenced by outsiders, but even then, you would have to believe these things to be true. Hope that answers your question.
  
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Erin May 28, 2012

Hi Linda,

When wanting to attract things that you desire is it ok to put time frames on them? will desires manifest within those time frames or is it best to leave it open?

Thank you

Erin

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- Linda May 28, 2012
  
  Hi Erin, It is good to put a time frame on things, without that you are leaving it way to open. Place a realistic time frame on what you desire. And act on inspiration as it comes to you. Keep visualizing what it will be like and feel like living the desire. Focus on having it, don’t pay attention to doubt when it pops up. Just Pivot your thoughts in the direction of where you want to be. And then think simple thoughts, general thoughts that feel a bit better, the more you do that, the more will come.
  
  I offer a FREE Coaching Session if you would like to try it to see how it works, just go to the Creative Coaching page to register.
  
  Imagine, Believe & Enjoy,
  Linda
  
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  - Erin May 29, 2012
    
    Thank you Linda I appreciate your reply. Thank you for clarifying the time frame issue I had . I will have a look at your creative coaching page.
    
    Thank you
    
    Erin
    
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Erin May 31, 2012

Hi Linda,

I asked for a sign from the universe that the car i’m manifesting is close. On the same morning I was shown the same make car then today shown the same model and make and colour that I want to manifest. Do you think that is the universe saying its on its way or is it saying I need to do something else for it to be in my reality?.

Thanks

Erin

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- Linda May 31, 2012
  
  Erin, Now that sounds like fun! The Universe is definitely giving you signs that it is matching your vibration. This is why it is so important to keep your focus on your desire in a positive way. Keep dreaming of driving that car and how awesome it feels. See yourself owning that car and know that the Universe will send it to you in some manner. You don’t have to try to figure out how it will happen. AND, then in your good feeling place of having this car the Universe will also send you inspiration as to how it might occur. You’ll get some great idea pop into your mind that you can actually do that will aide in bringing this desire to you. Keep playing with it and keep it fun! It will happen.
  
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  - Erin May 31, 2012
    
    Thank you Linda. I’ll keep the vibrational match happening . I appreciate the advice
    
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    - Linda May 31, 2012
      
      Great Erin, Feel free to email me anytime [email protected]
      
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Pauline June 6, 2012

Hi
I am in a job I dont like and would love a more fulfilling and better paid job. I also want to buy a house. Can you offer me any suggestions please many thanks

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- Linda June 6, 2012
  
  You have to start creating in your mind, really imagine yourself having the things that you desire. Be sure to add what it will feel like. Feel the energy and emotions that go with the desire. Do this often, at least twice a day, early morning and last thing before bed. Imagine it so much that if feels like it is real, and guess what, you will be inspired as to what you can do to bring it to you.
  
  I offer a FREE coaching session if you are interested. You can see what it’s like, get your thoughts focused on making these changes in your life, and see if you would like to continue with Coaching. Coaching is great because the Coach will keep you focused and working towards the desire.
  
  Try it, I’m sure you will love it!
  Linda
  
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Erin June 20, 2012

Hi Linda,

I would like to get your opinion on something if I may. Could the reason for not manifesting things that we desire be because we are just not supposed to experience those things in this lifetime?

Thank you

Erin

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- Linda June 20, 2012
  
  Well, I guess it could be. But, I’d guess that more likely might be that too much attention is being placed on the lack of the desire. That is the biggest stumbling block. The allowing of our desires to manifest in their own time without adding the vibration of “why is it not here” that’s the tricky part. But, also in saying that, I do think that the higher part of us is always guiding us and that if the desire is not in our best interest we might be pointed in the direction of what better suits us. Hope that helps! Linda
  
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Beth Bradshaw June 21, 2012

I’m having a hard time right now, with L.O.A. I’m in a negative work environment, and I go in happy, but there is always someone who pushes my buttons. It’s as if they are so unhappy, they don’t want anyone else to be happy. I feel as if I failed a test by getting upset, and standing up for myself. I have been over looked for a position that I should have received. It’s a long story. I want to be happy and make other people happy, and that’s all I want besides to enjoy my job. I try to let it go, and be happy anyway. It was just a bad day.

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- Linda June 21, 2012
  
  Hi Beth, There are a couple of things you can do. First is to acknowledge when the way you are feeling is coming from taking on someone else’s energy. Just sit quiet for a minute, even if you have to go to the bathroom to be alone. Sit quiet, close your eyes and imagine that you are releasing anyone elses energy that you have taken on when you breathe out. And on the in breath call oll of your own energy that you may have scattered around back to you. So you just sit quietly and take some nice deep breaths in and out until you feel like you are back to your own eneregy. So sort of an energy clearing.
  
  Another great tool, which has worked for me and also some of my Clients. It’s the Book of Positive Aspects. You can write down or even just notice the positive aspects of the person you are having difficulty with. I have done this myself, I would expect to see certain behavior from this person every time I saw them or even spoke to them on the phone. And there would always be some trouble that would come up. It’s Law of Attraction you get what you think about. Well I decided that I didn’t want this anymore. Knowing about the process I decided to notice all the thing I love about this person. It was immediate, once I started doing that, all I got was the positive stuff. It was amazing how fast it happened. I have had Clients use this in their work environment and they too had the same result. Maybe I’ll write an article about that. Try those two things and let me know how it goes. I think that’s all you will need.
  
  Imagine, Believe & Enjoy,
  Linda
  
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  - Beth Bradshaw June 21, 2012
    
    Thank you, Linda. I believe that will work.:)
    
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Chelle June 26, 2012

Hi Linda, can you please give me some advice on how to attract my finances from debt? I saw that you mentioned earlier about a Prosperity Game can you please explain how this works?

Thank you,

Chelle

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- Linda June 26, 2012
  
  The Prosperity Game works to get you vibrating to the feeling of Affluence. You need to print up some fake checks and have a check register. Have your fake checks be fun, maybe they are from the Unlimited Funds Bank, something you will enjoy. What you do is deposit $1,000 in the account on the first day, log it in your check register. You must spend the whole amount that day. Then the next day you deposit $2,000, spend all of that, then next day $3,000. So each day you deposit an additional 1,000 and each day you have to spend all of the money. So on day 10 you deposit $10,000 get the idea? There are tips I can give you along the way, but it’s easier for me to respond to you in an email. So please email me if you get stuck. [email protected] Most important thing is to have fun with it and enjoy spending. Each day you will have even more money, you have a never ending supply that gets bigger and bigger. And in spending all that money you pick up the vibration of being affluent. It’s fun and it really works to keep you feeling prosperous, even though it is imagined. We create with our thoughts and feelings and our imagination is what leads the way. Enjoy!
  
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tara July 1, 2012

Hello,
I would like your insight in regards to healing the relationship between my husband and I. We are separated. I have focused on the aspects i like about him, that has helped. I believe I can attract him again. I appreciate him in my mind. What would you suggest?

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- Linda July 1, 2012
  
  Hi Tara, Focusing on Positive Aspects is a great way to start seeing more of those things in him. Also, keep visualizing living, loving and being happy with him. Create that feeling again, even if just in your mind. It’s amazing how much can change just by getting into that feeling place again, without any of the problems, just the good feelings that can be. I posted a video today on my LOA Video Tips page, you will like it. Another great tool I use it Future Appreciations, I made of video of that tip also. I would also get into meditating if you don’t already do so. Get in touch with that power that you have within, feel the connection to yourself and your desires. Just see yourself in a loving marriage. And somehow the Universe will bring that too you, you just have to find the faith and believe that the right things come at the right time. Even if somehow you find yourself in that loving relationship with someone else. But, if you believe that the someone is your Husband now, then just really get into the feeling place of that. Imagine it so much that it feels like you are actually living it. And then see what comes. Hope that helps! Linda
  
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  - Tara July 2, 2012
    
    Hi Linda,
    Thank you so very much, that does help. Much appreciation to you!
    Tara
    
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Louise August 3, 2012

Hi Linda
Firstly thank you for the great website. My friend and I are really into LOA and were really pleased to come across a place dedicated to it !
I am passionate about trying to master LOA and do feel that I have witnessed it in action. I also have some specific occasions which I can point to where it has definitely worked for me.
However, they are on a smaller scale and I want to start seeing some bigger results. I think one of the biggest challenges for me is the Allowing aspect. I certainly have the desire for the requests that I make but I don’t think I have mastered that absolute relaxed confidence and assurance that it will come. I guess the challenge is that when you really want something (and the desire is strong) it is really difficult not to worry about when it is coming or whether it will actually come. It’s hard to be relaxed about something you feel passionate about!
I am assuming that as I better master LOA it will get easier because as I see more and more of the things I want manifesting, my faith and conviction will increase because it s always easier to believe something will happen if you ve already seen lots of proof of it. However the challenge is getting to that place of absolute faith and assurance in the process. What advice do you have?

Also, in your opinion, how often does the Universe deliver not immediately, but at a much later date. I sometimes find myself thinking that maybe the Universe hasn’t delivered at all but maybe in fact it has decided that the right time for me to have it is much later.

My greatest challenge (but also the one I desire most) is prosperity. I have managed to produce small effects which I feel very grateful for but I would like to see much bigger effects. So for example I can manifest tens of pounds but I would really like hundreds and ultimately thousands. The desire is definitely there and I do positive visualisation but again I think it must be the allowing part that is blocking me. I think I am having trouble believing that the universe will deliver say, a thousand pounds for me. In addition, are there any rules in relation to how quickly things manifest? Do certain things come quicker? And for what reason?

Final question – I do keep a gratitude journal and most of the time when I am feeling very positive I am staggered at how many wonderful things I have in my life. However, how do you keep a high level of appreciation up constantly when you become used to having all these wonderful things in your life? It is really hard not to start taking things for granted – not purposely of course but because it is an aspect of human behaviour ! What would you suggest?
Thankyou so much Linda !
Louise

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- Linda August 3, 2012
  
  Hi Louise,
  
  Thanks for you comment! Allowing is the hardest part. Have you seen anything that I have written about the Universal Manager. That is one way of allowing. Finding trust that the Universe will deliver. I and my Clients have had a lot of success with utilizing the Universal Manager. Here are links to two articles where I speak about the Manager, I’ve written others as well.
  
  http://www.livelawofattraction.com/1330/ask-and-it-is-given-this-is-the-law-of-attraction
  
  http://www.livelawofattraction.com/771/law-of-attraction-universal-manager-and-a-cute-little-hummingbird
  
  Journaling your Successes and Appreciation and Gratitude are great ways of staying in that vibration and bring more things to you to write about. Like attracts like, so the more you notice the good stuff the more will come and then you will start to find that trust in the energy of the Universe to bring more to you. I find that doing those things along with visualization and meditation are the easiest and fastest ways to stay in the good vibration where more and more that you desire will come. Also, looking at things from the energy of LOVE will really aide in creating. When you are in the energy of LOVE you are in the highest of all energy, only good things will be created from there.
  
  There is always a time lag for your desires to come to you. There is no set time, it could be faster or slower, it all depends on how well you hold the vibration of what you are creating. When you start to notice the lack, which is soooo easy to do, you are keeping your desire from you. In knowing that it might make it easier for you to pivot your thoughts from the lack of the desire to how great it will feel to live the desire. The more time you spend noticing the lack the longer it will take in creating.
  
  I do believe that the right things will come in the right time. That is true for me. You also have to trust in your intuition, in that higher part of you that is always connected to the Universal Energy. Sometimes there are things to be learned before the desire can be manifested. The higher part of you is always guiding you. Sometimes something that seems to be a bad thing actually turns out to be the absolute best thing that could have happened. That is guidance from your higher self.
  
  Have you received the email tip on The Prosperity Game, that is a great way to get into the vibe of having so much money and actually having to spend it all each day as the next day in the game more money always comes. It’s really a great process to get your money vibe up. Email me if you would like some info on that. [email protected]
  
  And for your last question, I think that once you understand the effect of Appreciation you never take anything for granted, there is always more to appreciate. It actually makes you even more eager to appreciate. It’s like a game that just gets to be more and more fun.
  
  I hope I hit each of your questions and gave you some things to think about. Please feel free to email me anytime.
  
  Imagine, Believe & Enjoy,
  Linda
  
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smile August 12, 2012

Hi Linda, My question is that if we are using gratitude and appreciation to improve a specific relationship. If that person is far away and you cant see the changes in the person’s behavior to see the actual proof of LOA working. Does are positive energy reach people who live far away from us? And how can we know what progress we have made in improving the relationship or whether we are close to achieving what we want.

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- Linda August 12, 2012
  
  Hi, You can use gratitude and appreciation to improve a relationship that you are developing or participating in, but you cannot create for another person. You can only influence that person to some degree. It is up to that person to want to change their own behavior, if they don’t want to they won’t. You can only be an influence of your own behavior that may then influence theirs but they have to want to change for themselves. Unless I am not understanding your question. If it is that you want to create a relationship, then you should put your focus on the type of relationship you want and imagine yourself in it. Don’t be so specific as to put a particular person in it. Find the feeling of what you want in a relationship and then see where the Universe guides you. Hope that helps, Linda
  
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