A major ingredient in using the Law of Attraction is the Art of Allowing.
The Art of Allowing is probably the hardest part of Law of Attraction. We spend a lot of time trying to mold things and people to fit the way we think they should be. Too many times we think that if things were different we would feel better. And in most cases these are things that are beyond our control. But the truth is that we need to feel good no matter what the other conditions are or what the other person or persons are doing.
When you release resistance you are Allowing. It’s easy when we are allowing the things that feel good to us, right? That’s easy, allowing good stuff is not hard at all, it’s welcomed. But, it’s the things that we find hard to accept that keep us from allowing and actually keep us in a negative leaning place. Especially when it comes to people. Many times we don’t want to allow people to be as they are. We try to change them in order to make ourselves feel better. But you don’t have to change anyone to feel better. You can’t change anyone, not unless they want the change that you think they would benefit from. The problem comes when the person you want to change doesn’t want to. That’s when you feel discomfort.
But if you could accept that person as they are and for what ever it is that they believe, you would feel better. After all, no body wants anyone telling them that they should change and be different to who they really are. I know I don’t want to change for anyone else, the only one I would want to make any changes for would be for myself. And funny thing is that when you feel good about yourself and trust yourself and your decisions, everyone around you will feel your good energy and be accepting of you.
For example, I have a client who feels negativity associated with a fellow worker. My Client is highly qualified in her field and she has a fellow Colleague who received a promotion that she didn’t feel this person is qualified for. She would look at this other Colleague and think many negative thoughts towards her because she didn’t feel that the promotion was warranted. She would see this Colleague everyday and would immediately think negative thoughts about her. Now, being stuck in those negative thoughts will not take my Client to her next promotion. She was so focused on negativity that it was the vibration that she was now offering regarding getting a promotion. So, if she is feeling that way everyday she is keeping her own promotion away from her.
Instead I spoke with her about the Law of Allowing and how if she could allow this Colleague to be who she is and be happy for her for getting that promotion, especially having less credentials. That goes to show you that this Colleague must be vibrating well to getting a promotion and so she got one. Even thought she wasn’t highly qualified. This really made so much sense to her. I spoke with her about finding the positive aspects of this Colleague. So now my Client started noticing all the good qualities of her Colleague and started admiring her Colleague for getting the promotion. She was able to turn her negativity into positive appreciative thoughts. She had not thought about looking for the good feeling thoughts relative to her Colleague. And when she did, she released all that negativity from her body. So now instead of continuing to tell a negative story regarding promotions, she let that go. Her thoughts now are all around creating her ideal promotion. She is now having fun working towards that goal. All it took was a simple shift in her thoughts which allowed her to accept her Colleague as she is. So my Client now is in a good vibration and I know she will get her promotion soon. Thanks to the processes by Abraham I was able to Coach her to her new understanding.
I’m sure you can think of relationships that you have negative leaning thoughts about. Or habits and characteristics of others that you don’t find acceptable. Even when it comes to Political beliefs, religious beliefs, social beliefs, etc the list goes on and on. Start allowing those things to be. Allow others to believe as they do, like what they like, allow them to be themselves and appreciate the things that you do agree with. You will find that you do feel better once you let go and just ALLOW. Try it! The more you allow, the more good stuff will come your way because you are staying in a good feeling vibration and that’s where the magic comes from. Allowing and Appreciation work hand in hand, they work together to aide you in keeping your vibration up.
I attached a video to this post that illustrates well, the Art of Allowing. I think you will love it, especially if you are a dog lover.
This is another way of allowing and it’s a really heart warming video. It’s about a puppy, who didn’t fit the mold of the job she was born into, but with her own will she did actually wind up doing the job she was bread for. Pretty interesting and a real feel good video. She was born to be a Service Dog and in her own way became just that, only not in the way her handler had planned. This Handler actually used the Art of Allowing.
Enjoy!
Linda
Surf Dog Ricochet