Coaches need to get Coaching too.
Today I had a great Coaching call with one of my Clients. Normally my coaching calls run on average one hour long. Today the call took only 18 minutes. That’s it, 18 minutes and we were done. Besides the reward of guiding my clients to their own answers, answers they already have and know within themselves but had not been able to tap into, I also grow so much more with every call. There is always something for me to takeaway from every call I give. There’s always something more for me to learn.
My Client came to the call already vibrating at a 10++, she had been working on a desire that she is now bringing to life. She is about to be full blown in the experience this Thursday afternoon as she presents her proposal to a very large corporation. At the beginning of this particular call I myself was only vibrating at about a 7 on a scale of 10. This was out of character for me.
When coaching I ask my clients how they are vibrating at the beginning of the call and again at the end of the call. Always there is a shift and my Clients vibration is raised from the processes used in Coaching. Except for the one time that I took my client down to a 3, you can read what I wrote about that experience here. It actually turned out good, but his vibe went way down. And guess what, I learned a lot from that call too.
But, back to today’s call, I had been Coaching my Client as she worked on a big presentation for a very large company. I knew she could do this and that she will do extremely well. I could just feel it for her. She had a lot to do and she managed to do it all, she typed the last period at the end of the proposal just minutes before our call. So, needless to say, this is why she was vibing so high at the start of the call.
Since her vibration was so high to start she asked for me to do the Virtual Reality process with her. It’s an Abraham process that is used when you are vibrating really well and want to milk that great vibration and really enforce it. The way it is done is that you live the experience that you want to create. You speak about the events unfolding. You put as much detail as you can and really feel it as if it is happening in the moment. It’s like you are starring in a movie about your life the way you want it to be. In this case it was like a dress rehearsal for the actual presentation.
Now, normally when you do this process you guide your Client by asking about who is there with her, what the temperature is like, what time of day is it. You are helping guide your Client to really feel and experience the story they are telling. So, my Client was so in her Vortex and vibrating so high that she knew exactly what she wanted to do on the call and she went with it. As soon as she started telling this story, there was nothing for me to do. Nothing, she was experiencing the day exactly as she plans, there was nothing for me to do but just go along for the ride and enjoy her excitement. That is exactly what I did. She had so much detail in her story, she could see the smiling faces of the Board Members that she was pitching to. By the time she was done with her virtual reality story I was myself vibrating at a 10+++. It was amazing! I could feel her story as if I was in the room at the presentation with her. And in feeling her excitement and enthusiasm my vibration rose. The process was for her only it also worked on me.
My Client is also coaching me.
Now, what I have not yet told you is that my Client is also a Law of Attraction Coach. She is actually my Coach. And funny thing is that as I coached her, my experience was that she had coached me. It was really amazing. She feels that if she did not have me to Coach her with this desire, that she would not have been able to do it. The Coach keeps you accountable. Coaching keeps you on track, keeps you positively focused on your desire so that you are able to manifest that desire.
I feel the same way, even though I Coach others, I too need to be Coached. You really need someone else to help guide you to your own knowingness. It’s not easy when you are going through different experiences to see for yourself when your thoughts are starting to lean to the less than positive side. You are too close to your own thoughts, too deep into the experience to take a step back and observe yourself and where you are going. In fact, if you read one of my earlier posts about my tattoo on my foot that reads “Enjoy the Journey” you know that it is the biggest Law of Attraction message that I have taken away. So much so I tattooed it on my foot as a reminder. Well, my Coach has asked me to look at my foot during a call to remind me of just that. It was exactly what I needed to hear and see to put me back on my track. I didn’t think of it on my own, my thoughts were moving to far away from it to see it. A Coach will hold the vision of where you want to be and keeps you on track to that desire. They keep your vibration high and from there you have the ability to tap into your own intuition as to what INSPIRED action to take next.
At the end of this Coaching Call, my Client was vibrating at a 100+++, her takeaway from doing the Virtual Reality was that she really felt like she was there living this desire. The nice thing about Law of Attraction is that the Universe doesn’t know the difference between reality and imagination. The Universe responds to your vibration, your good feelings that you get when you think, live or imagine. So the more you find the feeling of what you desire, the quicker it will come to you. I know that the presentation day will go exactly as she has been seeing it in her mind, exactly as she told me in her Virtual Reality.
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Enjoy the Journey,
Linda